World Schooling a teen

Our kids were exclusively world schooled ( homeschooled or unschooled) from junior school to the teenager years. It worked out well for all of us and we want to help you find your own paths in alternative education. Every now and then I create a blog post on how world schooling changes with time and age. 15 years old was a good age for us, a lot changed for my young teens around that age, so I just wanted to show you what world schooling a 15 year old teenager looked like, for us. Hopefully it will give you confidence and ideas, maybe a push to try a world schooling lifestyle with teens.

World Schooling a Teenager

Kids hit maturity at different ages, that’s just one reason the school system is such a farce. The 15-year-old worldschooler I’m talking about here was pretty mature for his age and was an early bloomer. It’s just biological hardwiring. That’s OK, that’s normal. This post is about one child and my child won’t be the same as yours or any other on the planet.

The most important activities for my teen, I think, aren’t the academics but the “character building” stuff. I don’t believe we shape our kids’ characters, I’m not that mom, but I don’t know how else to put it. Meeting diverse people, climbing mountains, volunteering and seeing the world as it really is have been massively important parts of my kids’ education, particularly as they reach young adulthood. The benefits of mixing with a huge diversity of adult humanity, rather than a classroom full of same age kids have been off the scale. More on that down the page.

Academic World Schooling at 15

The older the child the easier academic flow becomes. That’s what we’ve seen with our worldschooling teenagers. Teens develop academic interests of their own, they may not be the academic topics you or the state curriculum would pick for them, but they appear and the teens run with them. It’s very easy to become an authority on anything just using Google and a critical eye.

A little more structure can be reassuring, so on top of research for personal interest, we always had the kids doing courses. Open University is a brilliant resource for young teens and adults, Khan Academy is there if you want it, there are many courses, free and paid, available online if you look. Some are internationally recognised, some can be building blocks for degrees, some can be just for fun.

My older teen picked his courses and did some just for the hell of it. His interests often surprised me. Our younger teen needed mum or dad at his side, we did his courses together just to check he understood everything he was doing. Again, he picked the courses, we went where he would lead. We’ve got a lot of biologists in our family as well as historical, literary and language interests, but new topics pop up all the time.

Don’t feel you have to complete a course and be handed a certificate to be an expert on a topic. I’ve never done a course on website creation, marketing, writing, SEO, any of the skills I use every day to support my family. If you’re self-employed you won’t need to. Not having a piece of paper doesn’t make you any less qualified to do what you do, you’re simply not buying into a system where qualifications are a saleable product and often a source of huge debt for young people. I was a scientist by training, my new skills came from our friend Google.

Teen Attitude and Home Education

I wasn’t going to add this paragraph but I’ve been scrolling Pinterest looking for pins about travel with teens. All I saw was pins relating to how to “fix” teen rudeness, attitude, entitlement and behaviour. We didn’t have any of these problems, not even one. My only conclusion is that raising teens outside the school system, without FOMO and peer pressure, produces young adults that are more adult. I don’t know if other world or home schooled teens end up with bad attitudes or disconnected from their families, but it’s our experience that the kids turn out alright. My teen was my best travel buddy, friend, helper and source of joy. I’m very thankful for that.

Teens and Screens

Yes, my teen lived for his gaming, his online world and friends. Modern technology has brought him and us, so many benefits. At ” home” he would happily be online all day, every day, for weeks on end and I’m cool with that. He’s busy in his world. But give him a chance to do something different, to go somewhere new, try something special, to be offline up a mountain or on a remote beach, and he’ll grab it.

His hours on screens never were an ” addiction”. I don’t believe in addiction. He was filling his time with what he enjoyed and that’s how we all want to live. His online time never harmed him, it wasn’t an issue, it’s simply modern life and I think, all told, I spend just as much time online as he ever did. The internet is our income as a digital nomad family, it’s our connection, it’s how we organise our lives, plan, learn and research. The internet is a lifeline.

Exams and Worldschooling Teenagers

World Schooled, homeschooled or Unschooled teens can sit exams if they choose to or feel they need to. Obviously there are national variations in the exams 16 and 18-year-olds sit, but for us, exams can be sat at any age and no school attendance is required. There is a full post on how homeschooled kids can sit exams here. Exams aren’t necessarily required to have a fulfilling life. No exam I ever sat has helped me in my current career or life. Always remember that one heck of a lot of kids come out of the school system with barely any paper qualifications to show for a childhood of forced school attendance.

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World Schooling a teen

Building a Social Life and Network for World Schooling Teenagers

This was the most exciting aspect of launching a teenager into the world and the teen years were a lot of fun. Our older teenager joined us in the adult world socially and professionally and started to take his own independent steps into it.

You probably know that I like to keep the kids’ lives off the internet. They have always been happy for me to use their photos but I began to crop them out more and more as they got older. They’re building their own lives now and I respect their privacy, but I can tell you a little about the big social launch.

Because of the travel we do and our original lack of roots and family, my kids never really belonged anywhere. Neither do we parents, it’s just who we are and we like it that way. Instead we trod the path of being at home anywhere in the world. We have friends scattered around the globe and I know my teens could happily live in half a dozen countries and have some connections and contacts in them as well as the ability to just get on with life in what many would see as foreign cultures. I’m not saying our way is the right way, but it is what it is.

The older child went on many an adventure in his teenaged years, mostly with just one parent and without his brother. Splitting the family like this was good for everyone, there was a lot of personal growth as brother’s stepped out from each other’s shadows.

We were able to get our teenager more and more involved in the adult world through our, and his, work, volunteering, social interaction and travel. The travel often involved varied groups of people or other travel professionals. It was good, watching him grow. I liked what I saw happening. He met a lot of people and saw many nationalities, life experiences, personalities and attitudes, he watched, analysed and learned how to be, and not be, a part of the adult world.

In our experience teenagers like a challenge, we were able to provide plenty of those, from trekking Everest, Borneo and Bhutan, to off-roading camping trips in the bush and learning new skills like scuba diving or skiing. This really is the fun end of a world schooling upbringing and we are and were always looking for new ideas and challenges that he would love.

There are various world schooling camps, retreats and projects for teenagers. Lainie and Miro run Project World School, that’s something we’d consider sending world schooling 15-year-olds to. They’re about building temporary learning communities for world schooling teens. If our teenagers wanted to go, great, but they never quite fitted with where we were and we pretty much didn’t need that facility. We did fine, our way, but these group get-togethers could still happen in the future.

The Future Looks Bright

None of us can know what our 15-year-olds will be doing in 2 years, 5 or 10. Predicting outcomes for world schooling kids, or any kids, is impossible. The world is full of options and whatever my world schooled child wants to do with his life, it will be his call. We will support him for as long as he needs our support. He’s part of our business team and earns an online income, so if he chooses to stick with us on that, it’s cool. If he chooses some other path I’d be thrilled, either way, we’ve got his back and he will never be under any pressure to move out or pay us his keep. We share what we have and hopefully he’ll continue to hold tight to our family’s dearest values, of compassion, learning, support and inquisitive wonder at exploring the world. If you’d like to read more about education outside school, at all ages, see the related posts below.

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